How to Attract a Woman
How to Attract a Woman Who’s Out of Your League
Men have asked this question since we lived in caves. What exactly makes one man attractive to a woman and not the man sitting next to him?
Using a little common sense, and making some small changes to your life, can turn you into the type of guy that just about any woman will be attracted to. The degree of attraction, and what you do with it once a woman develops attraction for you, is the difference between simply becoming an attractive guy and getting laid four or five nights a week.
Here are ten things you can do to make yourself attractive to a woman, even if you think she’s out of your league.
1. Clean Yourself Up
If you’re struggling to attract women, there’s probably something about your hygiene or your clothes that needs some attention. You only have one chance to impress a woman, so get a haircut, buy some new clothes, and add a couple of showers to your weekly regimen.
2. Appeal to All Five Senses
Women are very sensual, in the literal sense of the world. Offend a woman’s senses and you turn her off quickly. You appeal to her senses with your voice, your smell, your appearance, etc. That means talking to her in a soft and gentle voice, wearing a fragrance she likes, smelling and looking clean, wearing fashionable clothes, and just generally going out of your way to not assault her senses.
3. Make Her Think About You
This is the tricky part–you have to do something that will put you on a woman’s mind. Plant the seed by finding out if she loves a particular cologne and then start to wear it. If she responds to your smile, let her catch you smiling into her eyes. You may even want to start a routine whereby you tell her a joke every time you see her. She’ll laugh at first, but eventually she’ll be thinking about you and anticipating your next run-in. Bury yourself in a woman’s mind, and you’ll soon be in her pants.
4. Flirt
Women are flirts, even more so than men. Women love to flirt–it establishes that they are attractive, that they’ve “still got it.” This works particular well with older woman, as they appreciate being flirted with even more than their younger counterparts. Use body language and innocent flirty speech to get your flirtation sparked. As long as you’ve followed the other steps on this list, your flirtation should be well received.
5. Give Her the Snub
Alright, you’ve cleaned up your act, attempted to appeal to her senses, buried yourself in her brain, and started flirting with her. Now you have to do the hardest thing you could think of. Stop calling her. Stop talking to her. Avoid places where you run into her. You do this for just a few days, a week maximum, then return to her like nothing happened. The very idea that you could be sitting somewhere not thinking about her will push her right into your arms.
6. Listen to Her
Women know when you are listening and when you’re faking. Listening when she talks will allow you to recall information later that could save your butt. (See How to Talk to Women for more information about this.)
7. Start a New Hobby
We’re not suggesting you join a woman’s book club just to get her to notice you, but you should start a new hobby or go after a new interest in order to make yourself more interesting and appealing to the other sex. Your collector’s editions of X-Men comic books is probably not going to cut it. Start a workout plan, join a support group, or learn to make model airplanes. Whatever the hobby, it will make you more interesting in the long run.
8. Be Honest
At this stage of an attraction, honesty is key. Keep all your promises, and only promise something to this woman if you know you’re going to come through.
9. Be Unique
Throughout this process, you need to convince this woman that you are original through and through. The danger of this step is that you could end up telling a woman your life story, leaving nothing about you to her imagination. This is a mistake as well. So be yourself, but don’t let her see all your dark secrets.
10. Do Not Brag
The number one killer of attraction between a woman and a man is an attitude of boasting on the part of a man. You are not a unique snowflake, and it is likely that the woman who is attracted to you has had better before. Be appreciative of your new found attraction, and remember to never brag about your past.
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