How to Develop a Personality
How to Develop a Personality
If you weren’t born with a personality you’re just going to have to fake it.
No matter if you’re male or female, short or tall, hot or ugly — if you don’t have a unique personality you’re simply not going to be able to survive in the dating world.
The hottest girl with the biggest breasts (and no personality) may still get laid from time to time, but no guy will want to stay with her much past the sex. Likewise for a hot guy — a Gap model probably has no shortage of females around him, but once they find out he has no personality, they’ll move right along.
So you say you don’t have a good personality? Here’s how to fake one.
1. Be Natural
People with personality are capable of “being themselves” — being natural. Acting like yourself means not getting upset about the small stuff (being “petty)’ and taking things in stride. People who don’t “sweat the small stuff” look confident, natural, and above all sexy. If you act like tha happiest and most at-peace-with-himself person, you’ll look like a positive and outgoing version of yourself. No one can have a personality without letting that “personality” take over — so start faking a cool and “natural” way of being.
2. Act A Little Crazy
I’m not suggesting that you behave like a psychopath or do anything dangerous — but look around at the people you know who have great “personalities” — they all act a little bizarre, don’t they? People with strong natural personalities often give in to their kooky side. Be willing to feel scared, mad, unreasonable, artistic, or any irrational feeling that comes to mind. Act out in little ways — maybe you make a weird collage for your friend after you just had a minor fight, or maybe you write a song for someone you have the hots for. Remember that people with personality often act out of character like this. People with flaws are very naturally charming and easy to like. Luckily, this is easy to fake.
3. Be A Curious Person
People who don’t want to try new things are boring. A lack of originality and a lack of willingness and curiousity is uglier than anything else, personality-wise, so to fake your great personality you’ll need to be a very curious person. If you are inquisitive and it seems like you are thirtsy for knowledge, people will gravitate to you. Plus, if you show that you have an appetite for learning, you will show that you are a person of action — and that is sexy. Don’t go too far with your fake personality and become a know-it-all . . . remember that it isn’t how much you know but how much you are willing to learn.
4. Have No Fear
If you approach life as if you are fearless you will look adventurous and full of positive attitudes. Other people will look at you and wonder just who that sexy and fearless person is. When people are attracted to your spirit this way they want to spend more time with them. So be fearless — fake a fearless attitude if you have to. You will earn huge dividends this way.
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