Where to Meet Girls
Meeting Women Anywhere
You and your friends should not have in your minds set places where you meet girls. Instead, be ready meet women anywhere, at least in public situations.
Many guys go out to the bar a couple of nights a week and hope to meeting single females in that situation, but otherwise turn off their dating sensors the rest of their week.
I’m going to show you some pretty amazing stats about meeting women and try to convince you that any time and any place is when you should be searching for girls to date. Then I’m going to point out places you should be scoping out for women.
Chance Meetings with Girls
A 2001 study showed that 42% of couples met in one of five ways. 15% of these people met at school or an educational setting. In another 15%, there were preexisting family relationships. In another 12% of the cases, the people lived in the same neighborhood when growing up, 11% met in a voluntary organization (charity, social club, hobbyist club), while 8% worked in the same office or business. That constitutes 42% of the hook-up situations polled, so that leaves a whopping 58% of the cases that were outside any of these settings. That’s almost 6 in every 10 couples.
Obviously, a lot of people are going to meet in bars, clubs, or friendly get-togethers. But that isn’t going to account for such a high percentage of relationships. So many people meet girls they date in chance encounters or chance meetings, that I can’t emphasize enough that you have to have your radar up anytime during the day. You never know when you’re going to meet the love of your life, so keep your head on a swivel, look for an opportunity, and seize opportunities when you see them.
Fun Places to Meet Girls
Besides meeting women in bars, dance clubs, raves, and parties, there are all kinds of places your can find women to date. Below are places you should be on the prowl for women. I’m not suggesting you seek these places out to patrol for girls. I’m suggesting that when you happen to be at these places, you shouldn’t be in “look but don’t speak” mode. Instead, take a chance, start a conversation, flirt a little, and see if you can get a phone number.
- Amusement Park
- Clothing Stores
- Concert
- State Fair – County Fair
- Intramural Sports
- Music Store
- Book Store
- Movie Theater
- Park
- Shopping Mall
- Sex Shops
- Wedding
- Youth Sporting Events
Places like music stores and film complexes are great places to meet women, because you naturally have something to talk about: movies and songs. Concerts are great for meeting women, though I suggest you go to a smaller, more intimate venue to enjoy a musical performance, because there’s more chance to talk from table to table, and the scene tends to be quieter. When you see a women clothes shopping or at the shopping mall, you’re likely to find her in a good mood, so now’s the time to make an approach.
Job-Related Places to Meet Girls
Even work-related or money-related settings are well-suited to meet women. You saw earlier that 8% of relationships start in the workplace, and I’m frankly surprised that the number is that low. The fact is, a much higher amount of flings and affairs start in your place of business, which don’t show up in this survey. I’m not suggesting you start an affair in your office, but if you’re single and looking for female companionship, take the time to get to know the women in your office. Keep track of office dating policies, though.
- Bank
- Business Association
- Business Convention
- Chamber of Commerce
- Office
- Running Errands
Meeting a woman at a bank opens up opportunities to either joke about how much money you have, or how little money both of you have (make sure this is playful and you’re implying you actually make a good salary). Get your business and commerce-related jokes ready when in these settings. Remember, these are generally serious places, so adding a little lightheartedness or light humor to the situation, when tastefully done, is probably a welcome moment in her day.
More Places to Meet Girls
- Church
- Civic Event
- College Class
- Night Class
- Gym
- Art Gallery
- Museum
- Volunteer Organization
- Social Circle of Friends
- Political Meetings
- PTA Meetings
The fact is, anywhere you are and there are females, that is where you should be meeting women. So don’t ask, “Where should I meet girls”. Ask yourself “Why not?“
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