How to Get a Girl to Like You
Secrets of Attracting Women
Below is how to get a girl to like you, if you think you have a chance with a woman. You might sense this girl that you know is attracted to you or is infatuated by you, but you don’t know how to approach it.
I’ll tell you how to be yourself, yet do the things that will keep her attracted to you, and make you even more attractive to her. There are several secrets to attracting women which should make you a better ladies man. Here’s how to get a woman to like you more.
Give Her a Challenge
This only works if there is some attraction on her end, and if she has some hope of attaining you. But the quickest way to attract a woman is to present her with a challenge. You, I, every guy you know, and every woman in the world wants what they can’t have. It’s human nature to covet something that’s just out of our reach.
I’m not saying you play hard to get or even play mind games. If you’re attracted, show you’re attracted. Just always leave her wanting more. End conversations before they fizzle out. Tell her, “My friends are waiting on me,” or whatever else demands your attention. Be the one to hang up the phone. You might want to be around her and you might be happy to sit in the bleachers talking to her all evening, but it’s better if you have some meaningful interaction or good conversation, then leave while she’s still wanting more.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, at least if you’re absent in the right amounts.
Be Unpredictable – Create an Air of Suspense
Part of creating a challenge is to create a certain amount of suspense in your relationship. Unpredictability in a man creates suspense in a woman. Suspense creates anticipation. When a woman feels anticipation, this naturally creates excitement.
This means you simply cannot be predictable to a woman. Don’t say what every other guy says. Don’t do what every other guy does, or do what you did yesterday. Always remember to add something new and novel into her day.
Do Women Date Jerks? – Get a Girl to Like You
That’s one of the reasons women seem to date jerks sometime. As soon as she thinks she’s on solid ground, he pulls the rug out from under her by starting an argument, walking out, or refusing to give the call-back. Suddenly, she has suspense in her life, a sense of anticipation, which leads to a certain amount of excitement.
Don’t get me wrong; I’m not suggesting you be a jerk. That’s far too tiring, and you’ll end up wearing each other out by constantly arguing. Also, there’s no reason to be an asshole.
Instead, I’m suggesting you see why jerks sometimes get the girl. You can be just as unpredictable and create as much suspense in a positive way. You can be a nice guy and a gentle boyfriend, and still keep her guessing. The idea is that she never guesses exactly what’s coming next, because if she does, you’re one step closer to losing her.
Make Yourself Habit Forming – Dating Tips
This next tip is for the guy who is has started a new dating relationship. This tip especially goes for the guy who wants to be in a serious relationship or have an exclusive girlfriend.
If you think this is the one, then you need to get her in the habit of wanting you around. That comes from being unpredictable and challenging, but at the same time, being available enough that she starts to miss you when you aren’t there.
Consistency and Security – Male Traits
For all the suspense a woman wants in her life, she also wants a certain kind of consistency and even security, as well. When you ask about what a girl wants, it is kind of true that she wants everything. But she has think she wants it. If you come on too strong, you’re just as likely to chase her away.
If you find yourself falling for this woman, play it cool. She’ll come around eventually. Make certain your times together are great and you have that spark. Make certain to be available when she really need you there, but be unavailable enough so that she understands your attention, affection, and friendship is not unconditional or complete. If you do these things, eventually, she’ll decide she wants you around.
When you meet someone and they become a friend or lover, you get in the habit of having them around. Eventually, if the two of you enjoy one another’s company, you’ll start to miss that person when they aren’t around. The same goes for a woman. If you have great chemistry when you’re together, she’ll eventually decide she needs to see you more often. But let that be her decision.
What Women and Dogs Have in Common
I used to have a dog that chased cars. As long as that car was passing by, she was going to chase after that car. If our neighbor happened to playfully swerve towards her (slow country road), she would run the other way.
The same was the case with people. If you took off running away from her, she would give chase. But if you ran directly at her, she would flee. That’s the way dogs tend to be, and it’s the same way with women.
Chase them and they’ll run. Run from them and they’ll chase.
You’re So Beautiful – What Not To Do
I have this friend who never learns. He attracts women, but he can never keep them. The biggest reason is he always comes on too strong. They go on a few dates, maybe start sleeping together, and suddenly he starts laying it on heavy.
That means he calls her at work. He calls her on his lunch hour. He sends her a dozen roses. He tells her he loves her when they get off the phone. I’ve heard all this. Mind you, this is a mere couple or three weeks into the relationship.
Desperate Boyfriends – Secrets of Attraction
Eventually, she decides he’s wanting too much, too fast. It’s a natural reaction from any person, not just women, to wonder why in the heck this person is so all-fired in a hurry to get exclusive, to fall in love, to be “in deep”.
This woman is naturally going to say, “Why is he so desperate for this?” That’s what I would ask. That’s what you would ask. It’s a rational question to ask yourself. More times than not, she’ll eventually come to the conclusion that he’s a desperate loser, and she’ll dump him.
How to Get a Girl to Like You
So the secrets to attracting women and getting a girl to like you are pretty simple: scarcity, unpredictability, good times together, and playing it cool. You can be yourself and still get everything you want from a woman, if you follow these few principles. She wants excitement, a man who presents her a certain challenge, a man who comes through in a pinch and provides a sense of security, a man who makes her feel good about herself, and a man who has enough self-respect to cling on her.
Be that man.
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