Inner Game
What Is Inner Game?
“Inner Game” is a concept many pickup artists talk about. Having inner game is having a basic attitude and confidence inside you which permeates your life and your interactions with women.
You could say the “outer game” is your pickup lines, your conversation skills, your “peacocking“, and the other techniques used to seduce women, while inner game is an inner reserve of confidence and coolness that not only regulates all the actions of your life, but gives you the will and respect to go on.
Put these two together and you have that intangible thing called charisma and magnetism.
Building Your Inner Game
The thing is, it’s easy to teach a guy the pickup artist methods seduction experts use to get women into bed. You can read articles, attend workshops and seminars, and go out in the field to see how the outer game is mastered. But teaching the inner game is much harder, because this is something which eventually comes from the man himself, and no amount of training is going to put that inside you, unless you will it.
Read any website by people in the pickup artist community and you’re likely to see a discussion of the inner game. Mystery talks about the inner game. David Deangelo talks about the “deep inner game”. I guess you get the point. You can find articles specifically about the subject under titles like those following.
- Dating Tips: Challenge Questions For You
- Confidence Around Girls
- Understanding Your Dating Problems
- What Does Being Your self With Women Imply
- How to Boost Your Self-Esteem in Seven Steps
- Overcoming Social Anxiety – The World is a Friendly Place!
- How To Overcome Your Fears With Women
Inner Game Books and Seminars
Read anything like the examples above and you’re focusing on your inner game when it comes to dating. This is about you, not what you do. A lot of the pickup artist community is about self-help and self-improvement, because if you start to build this new persona to meet new women and date more girls, you’re building it on a foundation of shifting sand, if you don’t become the type of man women want to date.
Build your inner confidence, reshape the persona which has held you back all this time, and you’ll be able to live a more enriched life, have more success in your career, and date the kind of women you want to date.
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